Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Tough Truth Tuesday-What Will They Remember?



What will your children remember about home? Will they remember…
§  That their father and mother loved each other and were kind to each other?
§  That home was a happy place governed by law of love?
§  That each child was treated fairly, deeply loved and required to obey their parents?
§  That Sunday was a happy day they looked forward to when everyone went to Bible study and worship without question?
§  That absolute truth abode therein, no earnest questioner, however young, was put off with evasion?
§  That though father and mother worked hard and long every day, they read the Bible and prayed?
§  That home was a place where friends and friendships were dear, but where truth and right were dearer?

“Our homes are preparatory schools for heaven. Training our children for their destination.”

– Neal Pollard

Motivational Monday-The Road We Walk


I find that often I do not have time to read lengthy posts. I’m guessing that you don’t either. So here are a few short devotional readings for you. May they encourage you today!


THE ROAD WE WALK

“Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.”
Matthew 7:13-14

Walking with God is not an easy path to tread. Our walk will not always be down a newly paved road. Often the path we must walk is filled with rocks, hills, potholes and curves. We cannot always see what is ahead. There may be times we are hit hard and never even saw it coming. Walking with God requires overcoming many obstacles. There may be times we fall down, but with the help of our Lord, we can get back up and continue on toward an eternal home with Him.

So what do we need to be successful on our Christian walk? Four things are very important. First we must desire to be successful in our walk. Second we must plan or study how to walk with God. Third, we must put our plan into action. Finally, we must invest in walking with God. This is not so different from an exercise plan we follow by walking to obtain better health. We have a desire to do the exercise. We set aside time to exercise because we consider it to be a priority in our life. We follow through with our plans to exercise and we do it repeatedly so that we are investing our time with hopes of good results.

God expects us to invest in walking with Him. He has blessed us and placed us here to do His will. If we faithfully walk down the road with Him we do not have to hope for good results, we know without a doubt, that we will be rewarded with an eternal home with him.

The road we walk is long, my friend,
We cannot see the way;
We walk by faith, our trust in God,
Toward one eternal day.
-Betty Burton Choate

Fill your cup Friday-The Walk


I realize this is a rather lengthy read, but believe me when I tell you it is worth it. I hope it helps to refill your cup today!

THE WALK

Today I walked in the quiet woods alone,
The rustle of leaves under my feet made a lonely sound
And the song of the birds was lonely too
Until I came to the old tree
With its spreading arms
And you came too and sat beside me.
I smiled in silent greeting
And beckoned to show you the thousands
Of tiny blue daisies looking up through the grass.
We marveled at the lush velvet of the moss up close to the tree
And you hushed my voice to hear
The note of a distant bird’s song.
We followed the sound as excuse
To walk under the shading arms of the old trees
Where the world seemed at peace
And quiet and still in its own thoughts.
We felt at peace too as we walked along,
Drinking in the solitude,
Stopping to hear the murmur of a little stream
And to watch the busy working
Of a colony of ants that caught our eye.
You stooped to let one crawl onto your finger
Where we watched his frantic searching
For companionship and security,
And we talked of his likeness with humans
Who sometimes spend a whole lifetime
Searching for something or someone to fill the void
Without ever once being satisfied.
Our steps turn back to the trail again
Under the deep shade of the old trees
And I walked beside you in silence,
Thinking of you,
Feeling a strong surge of happiness
Well up inside with such sweetness it made me ache
In thankfulness to God
For you.
I looked up to see your eyes on mine,
Deep in the same thoughts,
And you reached out to my outstretching hand
To touch my fingers
In a gentle communion of our souls;
One moment of eternity, caught and held in timelessness of
memory,
To be relived in months and years to come.
--One moment—then we turned and walked again
Into the hurried world.

Betty Burton Choate
Windows of the soul

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Thankful Thursday: Blessed.


Having somewhere to go is
Home.
Having someone to love is
Famliy.
Having both is a
blessing.
-unknown

Work-To-Do-Wednesday: Being There.

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It has been awhile since I have been in the blogosphere. I must admit that sometimes it bothers me that I don’t have the time (or energy) to post everyday. I want to be a dedicated blogger, but I also want to and must do many other things. I have a duty and obligation to many things so I must prioritize which leaves blogging near the bottom of my list. Should this bother me? Probably not, but it does. Perhaps that makes me an overachiever or simply unrealistic, but in this fast-paced technological world we live in I see others do it and am often guilty of mentally beating myself because I do not. I feel like a failure, even though I know in reality, nothing could be further from the truth.

I organize and try to make the most of each hour for the purpose of staying “caught up.” As moms and wives, we feel that multitasking is just part of our life. We cook supper, while running the washer and dryer, thinking of what needs to be prepared for the next day, all while keeping an eye on our children who are usually under our feet. Don’t misunderstand, caring for our homes and loved ones is truly a blessing, but it is one we must keep balanced. Will we have to multitask often? Definitely, it is simply a part of motherhood but we must recognize when our full attention is required. In this day of social media, we constantly compare ourselves to our friends who post pictures of their child’s perfect birthday party, play date with friends or meal times and feel that we have fallen incredibly short because we barely got the highchair cleaned up today, much less the entire house and instead of a homemade meal, we stick a Stouffer’s entrĂ©e in the oven or maybe just a frozen pizza. So in an effort to “keep up with the Jones’s,” we sacrifice giving our undivided attention and usually still end up feeling like a failure at all we attempt. We beat ourselves up because we are not supermom (& wife), forgetting that no one expects us to be her in the first place.

So I was having these thoughts the other day when I heard much needed advice. The advice was simply, be there. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing. If you’re at work, be there. If you’re playing catch with your child, be there. If you’re having a meal with your spouse, be there. Close your laptop and get down in the floor and spend some time playing with your children. Put your book away and spend time asking your husband about his day. Lay your cell phone down, that notification wasn’t that important. Will you have less time to spend with your hobbies by adopting the “Be there” approach? Possibly, but I guarantee years from now, you won’t be looking back on your life regretting that you didn’t post on your blog each day. Your blog will be there when your husband is gone and your children are grown. Keep that in your mind and be there.